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My Favorite Things for Planning a Couples Date Night

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It’s a new year and many of us have been planning for all the great things we’re going to do to better ourselves, our job, our family. Often I find myself focusing on my role as mother when I think of planning for bettering my family life, but I need to also remember my husband and how I can improve and strengthen my marriage in the new year. One of my resolutions for my marriage this year is to plan a date night more often, and make them good ones! I’m going to play the role of a famous tv personality and introduce you to my favorite things for a couples date night!

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My favorite things for planning a great date night!

Babysitting Bonuses

Pick up a fun activity for your babysitter to do with your kids. Perhaps something crafty, a game, or a new movie. Also consider a little dessert for after dinner. Your babysitter will appreciate having something new to do with your kids, your kids will love having a special treat, and you’ll feel better knowing your kids are having fun and enjoying their time while you’re away. Also consider offering a babysitting date night trade with some friends if you want to save some money or don’t know a good babysitter. You watch their kids one night for them to have a date night, and they return the favor another night.

Add some babysitter bonuses for your date night plans. Kids and babysitter will be thankful!

Plan fun for the kids and babysitter while you’re enjoying Date Night!

Not Your Usual Date Night

We’ve all done the dinner and movie route for date nights, so I’m planning to think outside the box and plan activities that are aren’t your typical date night. I recently bought certificates for indoor skydiving and have plans to buy certificates for a local ropes course & ziplining place. If you and your spouse are foodies, consider finding a city food tour or wine tasting. There are tons of local activities on some of the popular deal sites, so see what you can find to branch beyond your regular date.

Don't always have the same old date night. Plan something new and exciting!

Try something new together! Have an adventure!

Dress To Impress

This might not be for everyone, but I’m going to say dress up as one of my favorite date night things. I think back to my first date and how I made my hair look nice, picked out a cute outfit, and applied just the right eyeshadow and lipstick. I felt great! My husband loves me in jeans and a t-shirt, but he also loves how I look when I make a bit of extra effort on my hair and makeup. Perhaps even giving yourself a little mani or pedi will help you feel good about your appearance. Whatever it is, just make an effort to look nice and feel like you’re dressed for a date night.

Remember your first date and how you worked hard to look your best. Don't stop trying to impress your spouse on date night!

Make an effort to look and feel your best for your date night!

Conversation Starters

While both my hubby and I love technology and find dual phone use acceptable, we both know it’s not ideal for a date night. So, one of my new favorite ideas for planning a couples date night is to create some conversation starters. Grab a piece of paper and think of a few topics or questions you can bring up at dinner to spark some conversation and increase your closeness. Some ideas might be: goals for the year, best memory as a couple, favorite date night, dream vacation, hobby interests, career plans, most anticipated upcoming event, etc. Think of what your spouse loves to talk about, and think about what you’d like to share.

Plan for communication and sharing on your date night. Write down some conversation starters for the evening.

Write down some conversation starters to talk about with your spouse!

Spice Things Up

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Spice things up in your relationship!

Will you join me in making your marriage a priority for your resolutions in the new year ahead? Share your ideas below for how you improve date night or how you increase intimacy in your marriage. Plus, for more ideas on how to spice up your relationship, visit

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  1. Amberly says

    This is a goal that we’ve had this year as well and it’s been fun to make date night more intentional and do something a little outside of our norm, even if it still involves dinner and a movie. Thanks for sharing!

    • Kimberly says

      Great Amberly! We love dinner and movie dates, but it sometimes becomes “routine” feeling and I think sharing a new experience can really help encourage laughs and communication. Hope you have a great year of dates ahead!

    • Kimberly says

      We still have plenty of at home and dinner/movie dates, but I’m just trying to be more purposeful in planning them and getting my whole mindset into the idea of being on a date night! :)

  2. Britney says

    Some great ideas! I need to work on getting into normal clothes before the hubby gets home so I can look nicer. Workout clothes are so comfy….

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